Fighting in the middle of the night

Jan 16,2016 10:14 Saturday

It was PA day yesterday.  As usual,  I am afraid there will be fight between Ling and him.  I told him to make a arrangement for his own homework.  I suggested Wednesday school correction,  Kumon and piano.

During the day,  in the morning around 10:00, I looked at him over the study room camera,  be was watching games/movie. I told him to do home work first,  then playing. He said Ig wanted him to play first. Don't see breakfast.

Then I talked with her over camera and requested breakfast for son.

Around 1pm, he was still playing over camera. I asked him again for home work,  he said with cey that Ig did not help him to get Wednesday homework paper. Lunch was not ready.

Around 2pm, looks like he was eating lunch, I told him to go play with friends at 3pm. Andrew came to pick him up at 3pm.

Justin ate dinner at Andrew's home and I picked him up and returned home around 1:30pm after playing poker.  In the car,  Justin told me he requested food, but she didn't do it.  He asked her to teach him a few minutes of Chinese,  she didn't.  So fight in the car,  she screaming in the car threatening call 911 or jump out!!!!

I said stopping fighting and he cried saying "you are protecting Ig,  and I will not buy Christmas card,  not giving father 's day gift,  no towel either "!

Finally he is just a kid...  Kid thinking while Ig is 48 years old! What a pity!

I made a bagel ham with egg breakfast for him.  He felt not to eat due to that it's just a bagel.  After finishing,  he said" Daddy can i have some more? "

I took him to swimming at 10:00 and will go for piano at 11:30.

I wrote this during his swimming lesson time on the audience spectacular seat.

Best tea with cookie

January 12,2016

There was first snow storm in this winter this morning.  It was about 15cm. I shovelled the drive way after coming back from work.  After getting into home,  to my great happiness,  my treasure son made a tea for me with some yummy cookies!

Thank you  my smart son!

Love you

Daddy

Principal called

Date: Nov 20.2015

I just got an unwelcome call from school as I will be always freaked out whenever I see a phone from school. It always means something.

I was thinking maybe I forgot lunch lady order.

I was told Justin got a little scratch around his eyes. Poor boy!

It seem I really need to put him back to karate school.

But luckily, when he was back home, looks it's just minimal.

Honey Hot Water

Maybe I got a bit virus from my smart son last week. I've been coughing tonight. To my great happiness, he offered me a honey hot water.

I felt this honey water was extremely sweet.

Good lad! Thank you.

Daddy

2015.09.10 Fever first week of school

昨天宝贝感冒了。开学才第一个星期。估计是上个周末玩了太多了，或是刚刚开始不适应, 同学间相互感染。

昨天休学在家。走前确保没事才去上班，还要求他随时接听电话。中午打电话过去，叫他测了温度，38.5度。叮咛他喝了出门前准备好的Advil 20ml, 还叫他吃了午饭，然后午休。

本来昨天下班准时回家。但要还上次的照顾家庭时间，迟下班了。下班后一路狂奔，又走407, 火速回家看宝贝。

一进门，他在楼上睡觉。我看他左下眼脸肿胀，感觉一股心酸，宝贝你太可怜了。然后一直照应，开窗，开风扇，泡蜂蜜温水除咳嗽。5：30左右又物理降温从38.4到37.7度：湿毛巾顧冰袋搁脑门上，吃冰淇淋，敷冷毛巾在腋下。以为没事了，就去除草了。

没过二十几分钟，Ig 猛叫，宝贝温度升至39。原来她给他关了窗，风扇，加盖被子 - 蠢猪呀蠢猪，永远蠢！！！马上给他吃了三片Tylenol. 过后又继续除草。然后不打算做事，照看宝贝要紧。

饭后，又替宝贝准备了霉干菜加泰国米，加苹果当小晚饭。他吃得十分香。大赞好吃。还要吃。我说过会，怕你呃吐。

然后8点再补吃，熏牛肉片加米粉。也吃得津津有味。

再看看ig做的晚饭。好好的空心菜，可以做蒜茸或腐乳，她却倒入了BBQ肉酱！哭笑不得！

晚上睡觉也不断照看儿子，补足杯子的水。准备好听筒，Puff, 温度计和药。半夜10：30，给了19ml的Advil, 温度39.,到1：30查温度，3点复核情况，4：00再看，敷冷毛巾，直到5点，当中时睡时醒。看温度一直下降，7点再查，一切在控制之内，然后7：15放心地睡了一觉到8：30am。

鏖战一休，就想看牢宝贝好好的！

Happy birthday to me

昨天吃晚饭的时候，儿子突然对我说 ＂爸爸，没有礼物，但要对你说 happybirthday to you＂。太幸福了，儿子一下子懂事了。好写了一个日记，画了一个希望有生日party和没有的对照都。
Daddy love you,  小子。不过爸爸希望按时起床  lol。

你辛苦了

前天下班回来在后花园拔野草，儿子出来是"爸爸辛苦了"！看来小家伙马上懂事太，心里甜甜的。